sci-fi author, beatmaker

Month: June 2021

Superpower Habit: Learning How To Not Self Reject

Recently I submitted some beats to Timbaland. He’s been reacting to beats live on his Twitch stream. Anyone can submit. I picked a few Momu tracks that my friend Mark and I have been working on and submitted them via the app. I knew chances were slim that he would like any of them. It took weeks for Timbaland to get to our tracks. But he finally listened.

And yeah, he didn’t like them.

But I don’t regret submitting the tracks. Rejection doesn’t feel great, but it’s a minor discomfort that every creator needs to learn how to handle. Just as you can’t get stronger without the temporary discomfort of physical effort, you can’t make progress as an artist without the temporary discomfort of rejection.

Same goes for finding a romantic partner, a job, etc. Rejection is a part of life.

Questions I’m Struggling With

Recently I celebrated my birthday, in person, with dozens of vaccinated friends and family members. It was a joyful occasion and I felt and still feel deeply grateful.

But every new year of my life brings new questions. Here are just a few that I’m pondering at the moment:

  1. How do I co-raise a teenager? My daughter just turned 13. I recently had this breakthrough, but I have so many more questions.
  2. What’s the next step in my writing career? I have a novel coming out in September. I have two new novels in progress, one in second draft form, another with the first draft nearly complete. But I’m not sure I should even try to get them published yet. Maybe I should go back to short fiction first.
  3. What am I doing with music? I still co-own a record label, but we haven’t been very active lately. But I still enjoy making music with my friends, and intend to keep doing so. But how much time should I invest, and what are the opportunity costs?
  4. How do I best protect my health and health span in the coming years?
  5. What can I do to prevent my country from going down the drain? How do I best fight against voter suppression, corporate lobbyists, and opportunistic, hate-mongering agents of chaos like Donald Trump?
  6. What can I do to help reverse human-driven climate change? Or are we past the point of no return?
  7. What is the fastest way I can achieve financial freedom, which would allow me to travel more and work fewer hours?

I’m guessing 100% of the people who read this post will be asking themselves at least one of the questions above.

That’s all I have this week. No answers — just questions. Feel free to share your own questions and experiences in the comments.

Principles for Building Passive Income

Passive income is the dream, right? Arrange your life and finances so that money consistently flows into your bank account, regardless of your employment status or energy spent hustling for gigs. I don’t mind doing hourly work as long as the work is tolerable, the clients are nice, and the rate is fair, but passive income certainly reduces my stress levels.

I currently have nine sources of passive and semi-passive income:

  • book royalties
  • music sales royalties
  • music publishing royalties
  • blog affiliate income
  • Patreon
  • service contracts
  • equity dividends
  • interest
  • capital gains

Some of these sources contribute negligibly, less than $50 in a month, but in total my passive income averages about $3000 a month. Not enough to cover my current lifestyle (especially since 100% of my dividend and capital gains income are reinvested) but enough to provide a significant financial buffer. Even when I have a slow month in terms of consulting hours, the passive income almost guarantees that my net worth keeps growing.

Gastritis Healing Protocol (with hindsight)

I’ve been putting off writing this post for a long time. But when I read that Gordon Ryan is retiring from competition due to stomach problems, it reminded me that I have a responsibility to share what I’ve learned. Stomach problems, even when not life-threatening, can be debilitating, painful, and drag on for years. If I can help even one person recover from gastritis more quickly, it’s worth sharing this post.

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